I have to admit, I'm one of the biggest flirts you'll ever meet in your life (granted if you've ever met me). I've been this way for as long as I know. The ppl I've dated hated it and tried to get me to stop. I've gotten statements like, "if you love me, you'd stop flirting," "it's rude and disrespectful," "I'm really jealous," and other things. It's just that I don't find flirting harmful in any way. Flirting, to me, doesn't mean that you don't love the person you're with... I allow the other person to flirt (& they do), so I don't see a problem. I guess, flirting and love aren't equivalent in my books.
Flirting, to me, is just mere fun; a game if you like. There really is nothing to be jealous of b/c I wouldn't date more than half the ppl I flirt with. I just feel that I should be allowed to be myself. It's not like I don't tell these ppl ahead of time what I'm all abt, and I do explain myself. I'm a flirtaholic.
So I guess I'm wondering if you guys (old, young, experienced, inexperienced) feel that flirting is a sin in a relationship.
Thanks.