I believe that I am the oldest member of this site and I do have a younger brother that is of the same age gap. We're extremely close, and he is also protective like your own brother is for you. However, your brother needs to remember that you are OLDER than he is. You should be more wiser and what not. Not to say that you should be brighter or anything of the means, but that he should respect you and understand that you can make the right choices for everything including a bf.
I'm glad him and his posse have decided to look out for your every potential bf, but he has to understand that he's seeing the guy from his perspective and not yours. You have to ask him to trust your judgment. You will need to tell him that if the guy(s) don't work out, then that is your own fault. And there will be many times that you make a mistake in choosing someone. It happens.
Tell your brother to calm the "B/C I look like an older brother I'm going to act like one" personality. =) You're the older sister, you should be watching out for him... =D
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