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09-07-2007, 05:23 PM
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Should you tell your child that?
I was just thinking that is it really a good idea to tell your kid thathe/she is not their child but adopted? I dont think so personally. |
10-07-2007, 08:39 PM
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I think they should tell once the child is mature enough.
He/she has the rights to know of his/her past. It will definitely hurt a little, but I'm sure that the foster parents would feel relieved too to finally speak out.
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22-07-2007, 05:15 PM
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i think the foster parent should let the child know this way they aren't lying to the kid..plus the child has a right to know the truth
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22-07-2007, 06:29 PM
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depends on their ages
i mean if their a kid, keep it first...
cus you dont know how they react and what happen if they react......
and i tihnk its best to tell them when their 18+ or so....
a stage of age where they can able to handle situation already....
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22-07-2007, 08:37 PM
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i think should have tell that child when they r mature enough.. not to wait till they r adult or so.. or keep it as secret.. they will know it one day... n this will definitely hurt them deep
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22-07-2007, 11:10 PM
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i dont know what i would do you know... thinking on both sides of the situation as a parent it would be very hard to tell.. as the child finding out i think i would go numb.. i dont know what to think.. :S
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22-07-2007, 11:33 PM
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I think there comes a time when the parent should tell the child. And I think it's a good thing also to teach the child how important it is to help the people of the world and how one person can make a difference.
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22-07-2007, 11:42 PM
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hmm the child isnt going to think like that.. they going to think he/ she aint good enough for the real parents.. :S i dont know
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25-07-2007, 12:42 AM
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I think the best thing to do is to have the child know that he/she was adopted from the beginning. It would CRUSH them when they become mature enough to acknowledge the truth.
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