Seeing the girl you like flirting with other guys infront of you? And feeling uncomfortable?

**love-twins** · #1 (**permalink**) 03-09-2007, 02:26 PM

Dam man --v seeing friends of mine flirting with the girl i like( i got rejected ) make me feel very bad, i cant just show my jealousy infront of them beside looking away. That is just too cruel to me or it just my own problems.
ah dam man shes in almost all of my class, and in everysingle class my friend seem to flirt with her infront of me man >_<". dam all my friends seem to love to flirt with her. flirt included physical contact, like piggy back each other, draw on hands, making fun. i feel left out because she rejected me already and all my friends knows about it, lol. everytime i see this situation i feel very bad and jealousy. i keep telling myself ( i'm over her i'm over her ) but it just too hard to look at them flirting lol. ah DAM. Let Hope shes not in any of my class next semester, is all i hope ( i know this is just childish thinking ) but we cant remain as friends man, cos i still have feeling torward her. that's y.
Dam man i still wonder how did every 1 knows i like her. lol, the only person i've told is her and one of my friend. i dont think it's my friend but could it be her? lol oh well.

**Anonymous** · #2 (**permalink**) 03-09-2007, 05:09 PM

yeah.. i know tat is definitely a very bad feeling. try not to think too much about it.. or maybe try to join the flirting...=X.. just treat her like any normal girlfriends of urs..

**uglyduckling** · #3 (**permalink**) 04-09-2007, 02:42 PM

i know it must feel really bad... if it really is hurting you then u should wonder off from that crowd a bit and talk to somebody else or find a place to just relax and don't let those thoughts get to you.

**sorjaixp** · #4 (**permalink**) 04-09-2007, 09:01 PM

yea... i know how that feels.. to have another guy flirt with the girl you like... i've seen even more than just flirting with teh girl i like but theres nothing yu can do about it... i'm just too use to it already.. so it doesn't bother me as much as it use to

**love-twins** · #5 (**permalink**) 06-09-2007, 10:28 AM

Yeah most of the time i would just sit away from the crowd, find a spot where i cant see them or heard them and sit down by my self. >_<" people must have think i'm aloner aswel too. but oh well atlease i cant see them no more it's all worth it. ^^" thnx for your replies really appreciate ur oppinion.

**redplanet** · #6 (**permalink**) 07-09-2007, 01:16 AM

wow, nice frds u have, they know about it yet they flirt with her anyways.

it's all part of the life experience, it's painful, but it'll come handy in the future.

**Prixxor** · #7 (**permalink**) 07-09-2007, 09:33 PM

I know exactly what you are talking about, I've loved a girl too who was flirting with another guy.

**Sweet_Potato** · #8 (**permalink**) 24-06-2008, 11:19 PM

I know this was a while ago, but only time can heal your pain (lol, sounds cliche - but it is true)

As the time goes on you will find other girls that are nicer and that won't flirt with others, you will realise that this girl that you liked before isn't actually worth it.