Date or just meeting up?

**PeterMac** · #1 (**permalink**) 15-04-2007, 09:45 PM

I'm getting confused. What would you consider to be a date? I have asked girls out for dinner or a drink, would this be considered to be a date from the girls pov? Only from mine, I see it as a couple of people who is free to meet up. I have been told that it would be consisderd to be a date as the girl would probably expect it to lead to a possbile relationship, perhaps I am naive?

Am i leading them on?

**badass-es** · #2 (**permalink**) 20-04-2007, 01:53 AM

i guess if u do it really casually, and maybe if u get a few friends to go with u guys so its not just the 2 of u then i guess not :\

**jack_yin** · #3 (**permalink**) 20-04-2007, 07:09 AM

it's only a date if u treat it as one, or u should tell her beforehand

**maverick1031** · #4 (**permalink**) 20-04-2007, 01:01 PM

nothing wrong with the casual meet up. I hang out with girls alone all the time, honestly, if u don't think and act like its a date, then it isn't one.

You can make it clear before hand that this time hanging out is nothing special, then they won't get ideas.

**Orange** · #5 (**permalink**) 21-04-2007, 11:23 PM

I say if you say lets go for a bite/drink = JUST as friends to hang out.

If it's for a real date-date, then say so.

Or if you're not sure, then make the first one just a hangout. And then near the end/middle of that time, as her if she wants to go "out" (emphasis it's dateish) next time. =)

**unfob** · #6 (**permalink**) 03-06-2007, 10:56 AM

its only a date if you want it to be one
lol

lol
if not then its purely casual
like me and my ex get together oneon one for a drink sometimes
i mean youc an't say
im DAting her again now can you
lol
yeh
its just friends
if you dotn' know
them
its still not really a date
its a meeting
lol
thing
but then
if you want to call it a date
you can!
lol
the power is in your hands.

**davidnwk** · #7 (**permalink**) 09-06-2007, 06:03 PM

it doesnt matter rite..i think normally if a guys wwants to meet up wif a gal means if wans to date her,..do u agree wif me?

**cowhornz** · #8 (**permalink**) 19-06-2007, 09:22 PM

lol just think of her as ur sister and it won't be a date

**1swtprincess** · #9 (**permalink**) 20-06-2007, 08:58 AM

i would consider something like a dinner or movie with a guy friend to be just a friendly get together. usually, if the girl wants to get into a relationship because of the dinner or movie, she likes the guy. other than that, it would just be a friends thing