Any ideas on how to ditch a "friend"?

**asdfghjkl** · #1 (**permalink**) 01-05-2007, 07:47 PM

ok here's the problem:

One of our "friend" has simply gone too far and we decided to ditch him, but we dunno how

He makes the lamest responses, goes around and slaps ppl randomly, actually tried to bribe the teacher for better grades and is so cheap he steals cash from his own mother.

I could on and on, but i guess u get the drift about him.

Bad thing is, we go to and from school together, so it's kinda difficult for me to try and "fully ditch" him...

I might sound mean, but we gave him 2 years to change his personality and he's still the same.

Share ur experiences and try to help mine :(

**Sticky Rice** · #2 (**permalink**) 01-05-2007, 10:17 PM

I'm experiencing the same prob as you I've a friend that I've know for 15 yrs and I've fed up with the continous let downs, I've stopped talking to her for 2 months now but she still hassles me by ringing me up.

I guess non communication is the best way

**asdfghjkl** · #3 (**permalink**) 02-05-2007, 11:37 AM

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I'm experiencing the same prob as you I've a friend that I've know for 15 yrs and I've fed up with the continous let downs, I've stopped talking to her for 2 months now but she still hassles me by ringing me up.

I guess non communication is the best way blink.gif[/b]

It's the only way for me so far.
At least he doesn't hang out with us that much anymore, but we really wanna fully kick him out.
On a side note, he looks exactly the same to Hiro Nakamura from the show Heroes.

**maverick1031** · #4 (**permalink**) 02-05-2007, 11:59 AM

non-communication isn't the best way I don't think... I don't know I haven't really had much of this experience and I pick my circle of friends very carefully (though I always manage to be friends between enemies). I usually talk to them in their face about it, about how much of a dick they're being but I don't ask them to leave... we just move to a different spot everyday for lunch and stuff and when we hang out we don't say anything to him about it so... in a sense it is non-communication... but they know what they're doing that's pissing the rest of us off.

**teddybear67** · #5 (**permalink**) 02-05-2007, 01:17 PM

i would just be cold to the person like when she asks a question i would just reply short answer questions like yes and no. And if the person asks me to go out with her shopping etc, i would just say that i have no time or make up other excuses.
then the person would slowly know that she has to stepback unless shes a dumb

**flexik** · #6 (**permalink**) 02-05-2007, 06:15 PM

try avoiding them and see their reaction and if they're getting your message

**evalala** · #7 (**permalink**) 03-05-2007, 05:30 AM

That is how a girl i know exacly is. Me and my real friends do a good job ditching her. We leave her out of everything and dont talk much around her then like of leave her wherever she is. I guess its wrong but she deserves it. If she asks if we are going somewhere and we know she wants to go to, we just give her the bad points and say we arent sure if we're going or nbot. Its working

**asdfghjkl** · #8 (**permalink**) 03-05-2007, 05:23 PM

wow matty such a direct approach :o
bad thing is that he was a past best friend and we go to and from school together...
he gets the hints, but he still hangs around us, cos he's only got us

seems a little cruel, but we've decided to chuck eggs @ him @ the end of the yr