Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time?

**hibubblegum** · #1 (**permalink**) 19-05-2007, 07:03 PM

Have anyone of you had this experience of liking 2 persons at the same time? Or even worse...Liking someone when you already have a partner and even had a relationship with this third party.

Although, most of us will term this as cheating. Has it occured to you that it is possible that you could still like someone else even if you are attached?

If eventually you broke up with the third party because of some reasons, and you feel sad over the break up...that is to say you actually put in feelings into the relationship although you had cheated your partner

And that you still miss this person after you broke up with this person...which shows that feelings are involved rather than pure lust...

But unfortunately... the timing is just not right...

And after the person broke up with you, the person you liked so much got together with someone else...Do you think the person is not serious about you in the first place?

And if you refused to believe it that way...no matter how relentless you tried to make that person come back to you, that person who loved you so much and was willing to do so much for you before suddenly turned cold towards you.

Suddenly, you are a nobody to that person...When that happens...do you still believe that person ever liked you in the first place?Even though that person cried over the relationship so many times before the break up...

Or was the person just playing around?

Do you even think all these facts make coherent sense?

**bangboom** · #2 (**permalink**) 19-05-2007, 07:33 PM

NO I didn't try that

luckily?

hehe..but If u love 2 persons at a time, then u dun really love your first partner? I mean when u already got a gf/bf then can't really love both, your partner and the new one,,,cuz if u start "loving" the new one, then u don't love the old one, know what I mean?

**RiverSouth** · #3 (**permalink**) 20-05-2007, 02:22 AM

it is possible to have a crush on two person, but unlikely.

**maverick1031** · #4 (**permalink**) 20-05-2007, 07:23 AM

Entirely possible, no doubt of it...

I've know people who were in a relationship but was thinking about another person... I've know people who liked/loved 2 people at the same time.

Not surprising at all actually.

**Ran** · #5 (**permalink**) 20-05-2007, 07:28 AM

it all possible loving 2 person on the same time, we re talking about feeling not math, everything can be possible here.
i am a type that would love only one person till the end, i still love my last love even i have other bf right now, but its all in different meaning, doesnt mean that i still waiting for him, and wanted to be with him

**teddybear67** · #6 (**permalink**) 20-05-2007, 08:48 AM

uh huh, its possible to have a crush on 2 people, it happened to me! xD

**Devils119** · #7 (**permalink**) 20-05-2007, 03:47 PM

to be honest, i dont think its possible. cause love is so special its not able to be shared on two people at the same time. I think the second person is a different kind of love that you cant tell the difference between.

**cav1783** · #8 (**permalink**) 23-05-2007, 06:02 AM

nop. i din try that...but some of my friends did...end up..all messed up..my advice..better dtick to ur own partner.dun thk so much...