Would you have sex because your bf/gf asked for it?

**frost** · #1 (**permalink**) 25-05-2007, 04:11 AM

If you're a girl, would u have sex if ur bf asked for it, eventhough u dont wanna coz u mite think ur still too young/not ready/scared..or for any other reasons dont want to? WHY?

If you're a boy, would you have sex, coz ur gf asked for it..eventhough u don wan2 coz u mite be scared/not ready/not going to be fully commited/ or other reasons? WHY?

For me, sex is something that comes in much later in a relationship..it is not something that just happen coz u were getting hot n steamy..tats a lame excuse. everyone has control over their actions, unless ur under the influence of something else..like drugs n booze..than..good luck..

personally, i wont have sex if i dont wanna..especially if i had a solid reason for not wanting to..n it wil only be enjoyable if both parties are up to it anyway..else u will either feel like a prostitute or someone paying for a prostitute..

ur turn

**asdfghjkl** · #2 (**permalink**) 27-05-2007, 05:52 AM

Really depends on how the relationship is going on.

Only do it if both genders agree, or else it'll be like rape

**teddybear67** · #3 (**permalink**) 27-05-2007, 04:49 PM

argh, never. its more like the other party only thinks of it and never about those truly love the person.

**linderrfulxP** · #4 (**permalink**) 27-05-2007, 06:03 PM

I would not say yes to having sex if I feel I'm not ready or is still uncomfortable. It's important that the two people are comfortable of having sex. I don't think having sex out of force or uncertainty is really "making love" but rather rape.

**livia208** · #5 (**permalink**) 03-06-2007, 02:42 AM

nonononono i wont have sex untill i married even if i love the guy lots

**unfob** · #6 (**permalink**) 03-06-2007, 05:59 AM

depends on who the girl is lol
totally depends who the girl is.
but first time must be with someone special*
lol
then meh lol
my opinion.

**1swtprincess** · #7 (**permalink**) 20-06-2007, 09:34 AM

if i'm not ready for sex, i would say no. if my boyfriend wants to break up with me because i'm not putting out, then i say good riddance because it just seems all he wants in the relationship is sex and not the actual relationship itself.

**OTTER1314** · #8 (**permalink**) 26-06-2007, 09:45 PM

i don't care if my boyfriend wants sex or not... if he can't respect me... forget it.... its over....

i want someone who can respect me as much as i respect him... no force...

i won't have sex until I am married