Being in a relationship, where the man is shorter/younger/earning lesser?

**frost** · #1 (**permalink**) 25-05-2007, 04:20 AM

IF you are a girl, would u mind being in a relationship with a man that is shorter than u or is younger than you (mayb 2-5 years younger?)/ earning less than u are (if ur already working)/ or not as smart as you? why?

If you are a boy, would u mind being shorter than ur gf/ younger than her/ earning less/ not as smart as her? wil ur male ego get the better of u? why?

for me..the height issue isnt such a biggie, unless its like 30cm of difference in height then mayb i'll reconsider..age, as long as there are understanding, and both are willing to work out the differences than its cool..the salary issue could bug me..it mite not bug me in the beginning but eventually it will..so guys should earn more than girls..if possible

ur turn

**maverick1031** · #2 (**permalink**) 25-05-2007, 07:53 AM

Wow

I was shorter and younger than my ex-gf... I didn't have a job but I don't think she did either...

Personally, I don't actually care.

**Ran** · #3 (**permalink**) 25-05-2007, 04:48 PM

oh well my boyfriend about 3 years younger than me, and he is earning less than mine, is there any relation with love?
i dont think so

he is the most nice men i ever met, and even younger he is more mature than i am

**asdfghjkl** · #4 (**permalink**) 26-05-2007, 05:24 PM

Nothing is an issue, as long as u love him/her, that's all it matters for me.

**teddybear67** · #5 (**permalink**) 26-05-2007, 05:29 PM

hmmm...my boyfriend must defffinitley be older than me, by max of 3 years.
deffinitely taller than me
as for earning more/less, i dont really care, but he cannot be a dumb dumb...xD

**unfob** · #6 (**permalink**) 03-06-2007, 10:29 AM

YEs my ego will get teh better of me
however
in extreme cases i won't mind
my girl can be taller hopeuflly not.. since im preety tall lol..
she can be smarter
and teach me stuff
but not too old lol
i dont' mind slightly older
but its usually girls who mind younger guys lol
dam them!

**xsmilee_starzx** · #7 (**permalink**) 07-06-2007, 07:43 PM

i think height wouldnt matter that much unless it's a huge difference. unless the guy cares that the girl is taller. lol. as for age...i guess itw ouldnt matter as long as i like him. usually i dont like younger guys though. i guess if the younger guy is very mature though..it'd be fine. ahha.a s for job..i dont think that matters.

**hotmama** · #8 (**permalink**) 11-07-2007, 05:45 PM

a couple years ago, i couldn't accept that a younger guy liked me. i've regretted it after seeing him again, not only cause he is the cutest guy that i've ever met, but cause a lot of girls i worked with had a crush on him. now i'm fine with it, if a guy younger than me liked me.