A question to all girls?

**Imson** · #1 (**permalink**) 28-05-2007, 09:50 PM

right honestly, believe this or not there is no real love in this world, people only fancy each other because they're eiether good looking or rich. For example good looking girls would only go for boys that is good looking cause it suits them, you wouldn't see a good looking girl holding hands with a fat, short and ugly guy in the streets or a good looking boy holding hands with an ugly girl. A celebrity would never fancy someone that is poor or have low income.

That is because there is no such thing as love.

So heres a question to all girls - would you ever date a boy that is ugly and poor but really loves you?

**carissalady** · #2 (**permalink**) 29-05-2007, 07:57 PM

yes i would if i know for sure it is love by my gut instincts. and actually i know some people in life that are really pretty/handsome in a relationship with a much less attractive person.

**babybluetezi** · #3 (**permalink**) 30-05-2007, 01:49 PM

Yes, i would if i really have feelings for him. Actually, i have dated a guy that is poor and ugly looking before but he has other features and characteristic that attracts me. So money and looks are not that important when it comes to love.

**hsiengloong** · #4 (**permalink**) 01-06-2007, 05:26 AM

I think for a girl its more to feelings..not compared 2 a guy, guys will go for looks and etc but for girls, they react more towards reaction

**spech** · #5 (**permalink**) 02-06-2007, 02:18 PM

OP, if your theory is correct, then how would you explain non-beautiful and non-rich people in relationships? I agree that physical attraction is important in a relationship and most people don't want to go "lower" than their own level, but that is too much of a simplistic generalization.

**SUSIE-DANG-1988** · #6 (**permalink**) 03-06-2007, 01:03 AM

yeah and i would. It doesnt matter if he's ugly... but if i really loved him then he's always perfect for me.
And poor - also doesnt matter. As long as your happy together.

**1swtprincess** · #7 (**permalink**) 20-06-2007, 09:36 AM

there are poeple out there who aren't shallow and take the time to develop feelings for others who aren't as attractive. but to me, the guy has to be somewhat decent to catch my attention to want to get to know him in the first place

**OTTER1314** · #8 (**permalink**) 26-06-2007, 09:52 PM

if you really love that person and that guy treats you like the queen then yea...

i honestly don't care about money,, yea money is important but whats more important in life than money... and that is love... you need love support in order to work together to earn money... right?

all that matters is the inside not outside
and plus, if the guy isn't that good looking,, no competition !

i definitely go with the answer YES

**asdfghjkl** · #9 (**permalink**) 27-06-2007, 06:01 PM

Ok from a guy's point of view (me anyway), we go for the looks, and then we decide.

**LvChineseGrl** · #10 (**permalink**) 02-07-2007, 11:41 PM

Ah...........I would say yes and no, cuzz if I love him, it is def. a yes. But, in the opposite side, if he loves me but I don't love him, I wouldn't date him even if he is not poor or ugly. I think that if I love him, he is def. perfect to me. That's true love, even if pplz said he is not that good, blah blah, but in my heart, he is the perfect guy.