How do you get over someone? - Page 2

**sytfion** · #31 (**permalink**) 29-02-2008, 08:05 AM

Depends how much you like him. The more you do, the harder. Keeping busy seems to make it more tolerable though...

**lil_vi3t_hotti3** · #32 (**permalink**) 04-03-2008, 04:22 AM

if u want to get over him u should like hangout with friend and do some work if the wouldn't work like find a new guy lol

**xtinox** · #33 (**permalink**) 10-03-2008, 05:36 AM

i'm trying to get over someone right now as well =(
actually it was today in the morning 1am that i decided i need to get over him!
we're pretty good friends but then you know, good friends can't stay that way forever (especially with the opposite genders) ... and whaddayaknow, i fell for him =(
we seemed pretty good at first, and he didn't really notice, or he seemed to take a liking to me too
but then lately it's been going downhill, and i've suffered so much because he's pretty ignorant, 'cause i think he found out somehow or felt it and is kinda indirectly rejecting me =/ ...

so yeah!
what i'm gonna try to do is ... if you guys always hang our or talk a lot - is to stop that for a while.
keep your distance basically~
eventually, if you keep yourself busy and your options open (for other guys more worth your time) the feeling will die down a bit, and soon that feeling will transform back to friendly feelings

sigh :( at least that's what i'm hoping for
good luck!

**karnalic** · #34 (**permalink**) 20-03-2008, 05:28 AM

Getting over someone you love is never easy and will take time. most often people tend to get busy with their life trying to keep their mind off thinking about that someone. to forget a person will never happen because memories will always be there. the best way is to think positive about the situation rather than take it as a heart broken.

**chunkie munkie** · #35 (**permalink**) 22-03-2008, 07:00 AM

Become a bookworm. Tend to your school work and get As. Oh, and stop hanging out with the guy. If you continue to be "friends" with him, it will do you absolutely no good. He might seem like the "crush of your life" now, but it's only for this particular moment. Ppl will come and go from your life. Why keep yourself tied to 1 person who's not even a bf and doesn't want to be one? I'm old, I know. So, dear young one(s), focus your life on things like school, sports, work, career...wherever your life is at right now. If you change your focus to something more productive, you'll enlighten yourself. Maybe you'll realize that this guy isn't right for you and that your feelings made your brain feel a certain way...it happens.

**haiji** · #36 (**permalink**) 25-03-2008, 10:51 AM

somewhat hard and somewhat easy. You can just let go and just do not care about. But at the same time, some people do not want to let go. So I do not know is this easy or hard. Some people have weaker conciousness, so they are control by feelings. Honestly, I do not know why, but i like to think about sad things and have sad feeling. When I feel sad, i actually enjoy this feeling, when this feeling is over, I feel a little disappointed and a little upset. I am weird.

Anyway! back to topic. I do not know if my suggustion is a bad or not. I personally, if i am answering this question for myself, i will say, you do not know to get over with the situation. You can enjoy your time being with that person and go with the flow and just be nature, or be yourself. You do not have to keep yourself busy. You might one day get so use to this that you automatically let go without noticing. Plus i personally like thinking about the past and really enjoy all those things that happen even though there are things i did not like. It is like a story that is pretty fun. Maybe i am too optimistic.

Sorry i do not know what i said would be a good or bad advise. To me, you can like someone without that person liking you. I would just keep that feeling in my heart. Liking someone is to make them happy right? That what many people said right? So you do not have to really get over the feeling.
But if you really get over the feeling, it hard to say how to. Some people just can't. Some people keep themself busy. Some people just like what other people just do extreme things. But to me, these are things that are kind of like trying to attract attention. To get over this feeling, you can also try to like someone else.
To me, if i do not want to like someone, i just really conciously say i do not like her and will not longer like her, than i will not like her. That how simple it is but at the same time it is hard because it not that easy to convince your self to give up that feeling. So i usually never give up my feeling even if i know that person will not like me.

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**ms irene yu** · #37 (**permalink**) 17-05-2008, 06:02 AM

well since its a friend, it's really hard to say.... if u guys aren't friends, i would've told u to delete his number, messages, EVERYTHING (yes, everything!! trust me.. it'll work). go out with ur girls & just have fun. & lastly, meet new guys. someone better will come along & u'll soon forget that u ever had a crush on this kid

**samsam** · #38 (**permalink**) 08-06-2008, 09:46 AM

it just gonna take a bit of times then slowly u wont hav e feeling anymore... i mean SLOWLY...

**porkyng** · #39 (**permalink**) 10-06-2008, 02:38 PM

I do agree that time will help getting over your ex, its just hard... and I really wish I never would need to deal with it... I would also try to meet new friends and keep myself busy to forget about things that happened