How do you get over someone?

**AznxTurtlexBaby9** · #1 (**permalink**) 19-07-2007, 09:31 AM

i like a friend but he already rejected me and i kno he'll never c me as more than a friend.. i'm ok with that cuz i like how we r now.... but how do i get over him? ._.

**shye** · #2 (**permalink**) 19-07-2007, 12:02 PM

get yourself busy ?

Go out and do something with your friends,shopping, movie, learn some new stuff - secondary language (japanese/chinese/korean), cook,play some sports, social etc - in short, keep yourself busy till you don't have time to think about it.

I don't know about others but I think this method will work to certain extend.

**Azniqqazzz** · #3 (**permalink**) 20-07-2007, 06:55 AM

goin out with my friends and get busy with my life and look for someone perfect

**JayJay** · #4 (**permalink**) 21-07-2007, 03:03 PM

ive found that it is sort of impossible to move on and get over someone.. cause no matter what, therell still be that lingering feeling for that person.. it may die down as you go on but youll always feel something for them.. it shows you care..

keeping yourself busy and doing things is good.. but it cant help you get over someone.. all it does is block out the reality of things and make you not want to deal with it. true it may help you find something new and exciting and make you enjoy life in a different way, but when it comes back to it, and you think about them will doing something help? no, it just blocks it out..

the best way to get over someone.. is think how you want life to be.. do you want it to be controlled by them even though nothing will happen..

and of course.. maybe theres someone else out there who likes you, but you dont know it yet.. find someone else..

and smile! cause it brightens up the place..
or Smile! because you never know whos falling in love with your smile

**evalala** · #5 (**permalink**) 22-07-2007, 01:34 PM

you can find someone else.(not the best way, i've seen people use that way and its not good), do stuff to make time past and soon with time you will forget them. it may take a long time or a short. took me 2 years once

**Anonymous** · #6 (**permalink**) 23-07-2007, 09:31 AM

i was like in this situation b4.. tat was my ex.. n i knew tat we wont be together again 4ever.. n i tried not to think of it again.. but tat feeling is really had to control.... u will think u get over it after a long time of non-communication.. but everything will back when c him... so the best way is find a new one.. which is much more better..which make u love him more than the one rejected u...*wink*

**i_Rukawa** · #7 (**permalink**) 24-07-2007, 12:03 AM

very simple, just make ur life busy and u dont have time to think about that. I dunno why but somehow it works. Cuz i've gone throught this situation.

**danny_luk** · #8 (**permalink**) 24-07-2007, 01:26 PM

im in the same situation...i need to 4 get about a friend, who wont talk to me again...n we were so close...

**smilely** · #9 (**permalink**) 24-07-2007, 01:53 PM

go and find another one thats the simpliest way