[wlong99]

I am wondering if I should tell this girl that I like her and ask her to go out with me... the only thing that is stopping me right now is that we both are going to graduate in exactly 2 months from college and then both of us will be separated by distance and I am just afraid that would be a reason to end a relationship that had just started... so I just need some advice to know what to do, kinda driving me a lil crazy

oh btw, the girl is a friend of mine that I have known for 2-3 years now, dont know if this is important or not...

[chunkie munkie]

Well, if distance is going to be separating you in 2 months... do it. You might not see her again after you grad, so if she avoids now or never sees you in 2 months b/c you didn't ask... the result is the same. However, if she says, cool...then it's a bonus. I gave you advice before, feel free to go that other route too. 50/50 chance. Good luck!

[wlong99]

haha yea u did, thanks again... it makes sense to just tell her and see what happens

[iCedrAgOnbOi]

but if u looking for a longterm thing then it aint gona happen dude, never have and never will be. trust me i seen it happen and been there loads of time. but hey if she say yes and its just for a fling then good luck dude

[Sakura]

Not all long distance relationships fail iCedrAgOnbOi, just because you haven't seen any doesn't mean there aren't.

Just try and confess your feelings to her wlong99 and see what happens. You may never know the result of it until you confess. If she accepts, then congrats! If she doesn't at least you tried, but I wish you luck!

[chunkie munkie]

=) If you were going to see her later on...like, you live in the same area or work in the same bldg, I'd slow the process a bit...but you'll be on different sides of earth (?). Take the leap. LDRs are hard....especially for ppl your age. If you were older like... late 20s early 30s, I'd see it work. Most of the LDRs in the late teens and early 20s don't withstand that. And it shouldn't. Your careers should be the priority; why else would you go to college??? Plus, there are so many options out there. But the real reason is selfishness - young'uns aren't going to sacrifice. If I were back at your age and I had an awesome job where I was... I wouldn't give it up for love. He/She can come to my neck of the woods. If not...well...that's ok.

[maverick1031]

Even if you do separate 2 months later because you are going to different schools, those 2 months will still be worth it. And if she wants the relationship to continue, then thats an added bonus.

I'd say go for it, and if it works out, enjoy the 2 months and hope she'll want to keep it going after u guys go to your respective colleges.

[sexyshare]

yes you should,

you'll only regret, unless someone hotter comes along..

[GuardianFlash]

if you know her for some time now and she is already your friend then you will still have contact with her through email or phone. So don't worry about not ever seeing her again. I say you should go ahead and tell her you like her if she doesn't have a boyfriend.

[ambrosa]

hello..... what are u waiting for mike!!??? If u like her go on confess to her, grab on her and don't regreat later on that because u were afraid, and miss the change u might be great n happy with her.

Come on if she do love u she will understand n wait for u.... there is internet, msn, video conferencing..... and flight whereby u guys can keep in touch.

Go on confess to her and good luck in that.

P/S:- be honest to her n tell her how u felt about her, she would love that

[LvChineseGrl]

Well, in my opinion, you should ask her, you know never known what will happen. Don't ever let something be in the way of love, or you will be regret. If both of you will be in distance, then just call each others, or talk on the phone. It's that simple, and plus one thing is to make sure if she likes you.

(I am a girl, so I am thinking of the girl's view)

[toots44]

i say = yes go for it - you cant be afraid of what might not happen and also you're only young once,... is better to have it and loose it than never had it

[ambrosa]

oh my u should go ahead.... grap this opportunities to express out.... i am sure u will not regrate later cause i know this dude miss his change and he nv have the chance again to express . Hope u will find your luv

[Chirpy]

How did it actually go Wlong99? Did you ask her?

[wlong99]

Chirpy... i ended up telling her i like her but we decided to stay as friends. Also, i stayed an extra semester and met someone else and gave that a shot and everything worked out and it has been almost a year in our relationship with this other girl... i am just happy to that i ended up tell her and right now being in a long distance relationship is hard but it is not bad, since i get to see her every month or two and we chat so much on the phone and go on trips too...

[wwhlee]

the only one that can make the decision is you.

some people can get through the long distance relationship and get married like 10 years later. others can't. that is strange thing about love/feelings. when you go to school you meet someone new, that person before you "can't live without" doesn't seem that important any more.

wish you the best

[blu69]

distance shouldn't stop you. if u love the person sincerely then you have other means of reaching the person after graduating like visting each other during holidays and sucha and keeping in touch.