Who's in university and in a long distance relationship?

**JayJay** · #1 (**permalink**) 20-09-2007, 08:33 AM

who here is at uni and currently involved in a long distance relationship?

do they work? because when you go off to uni you meet lots of new people, and things change and you might meet someone new... so does long distance relationships work? i know many stories where people have tried or said they would be together forever, but within a month or maybe a little longer, its already failed. especially with freshers week, you meet soo many new people, so as much as you love someone, surely its better off if its ended and you both start afresh?

**Anonymous** · #2 (**permalink**) 20-09-2007, 03:47 PM

i believe most ppl will think tat long distance relationship will not work out.. but.. there r still some nice example.. one couple i know in hs.. they have dated 2 years n the girl went overseas after hs... n she went back only after 2 years.. n they r still lovely couple.. the girl has lots of admirer there.. (as i know).. n the guy is quite handsome as well.. but they still can maintain the long distance relationship.. n i believe none of them ever cheat to the other party.. they r both my good frens.. so i think it really depends on how deep is the love between them..

**Kwan-Yi** · #3 (**permalink**) 20-09-2007, 07:14 PM

long distance relationships dont work. i know many people who has been through it & has broken up..

**Sakura** · #4 (**permalink**) 21-09-2007, 04:16 AM

It's possible for a long distance relationship to work, but it depends on the couple because it is hard because I was in one many years ago and it didn't go well. Although it didn't work for me, I know it can for others. I have a good friend who was in a long distance relationship. She would go visit him when she can and he would do the same. And now they're finally together or rather they're living together now.

**JaeJun** · #5 (**permalink**) 08-11-2007, 03:41 AM

i agree that long distance relationship don't work unless they are really destined to be together ...

**akka** · #6 (**permalink**) 23-11-2007, 09:32 AM

the chances are really low, the distance will fade the relationship away.

**KhoOnxNouxWanxJai** · #7 (**permalink**) 11-12-2007, 07:28 PM

Distance is hard especially for both sides because each will strive to get attention from the other. Like for example maybe one side made new friends and is going out often while the other side is stuck at home studying? so it might strain it... but doesn't mean it will not work. I was in a ldr and it worked out fine; because he decided he had to move here to be with me

**Shumgie** · #8 (**permalink**) 24-12-2007, 05:29 PM

people say long-distance relationships dont last, but it actually depends on the couple's personality towards their relationship >.< some dont last because they dont have confident in themselves and think that there would be other people that would attract their partner